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A Foreigner in My Own Life
Recovery changes you—but no one talks about how strange it feels to meet yourself on the other side.

Vanessa Gillier
Dec 7, 20253 min read


The Gentle Art of Beginning Again
Starting anew not because you were broken, but because you are whole.

Vanessa Gillier
Nov 30, 20253 min read


You’re Not Broken Anymore - But You’re Not the Same Either
Recovery, whether from mental illness, addiction, trauma, grief, or burnout is rarely a reset button.

Vanessa Gillier
Nov 23, 20252 min read


Outgrowing Recovery as an Identity
Recovery once gave me structure and identity. But what happens when healing isn’t the whole story anymore?

Vanessa Gillier
Nov 16, 20254 min read


This is Not a Breakthrough Post
I’m here. Not thriving. Not crashing. Just… living. Staying. Becoming.

Vanessa Gillier
Nov 9, 20254 min read


From Client to Co-Pilot
The way you engage with therapy can evolve.

Vanessa Gillier
Nov 2, 20253 min read


Suffering Isn’t a Requirement for Growth
You don’t have to drink the whole ocean to know that it’s salty.

Vanessa Gillier
Oct 19, 20253 min read


Different Paths to Belonging
When being authentic feels risky.

Vanessa Gillier
Sep 21, 20254 min read


The Compliment Gap
Avoiding compliments or chasing them are both coping strategies for insecurity.

Vanessa Gillier
Sep 14, 20254 min read


From Invincible to Invisible to Invaluable
You may have been broken, but you were never beyond repair.

Vanessa Gillier
Aug 24, 20254 min read


Advice to my younger self...
Life isn't perfect, but you'll be ok.

Vanessa Gillier
Jul 27, 20255 min read


Life - just a series of problems
How we navigate the rough patches often defines who we become.

Vanessa Gillier
Jul 13, 20254 min read


Signs You're Healing
Even if you're still arguing with yourself in the shower.

Vanessa Gillier
Jul 6, 20253 min read


Navigating Change
"Change is inevitable. Growth is optional." - John Maxwell

Vanessa Gillier
Jun 22, 20254 min read


Same House, Different Stories
Understanding how you became who you are.

Vanessa Gillier
Jun 15, 20255 min read
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