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Lessons From the Other Side of Rock Bottom
I used to think rock bottom was the end. Now I finally understand that it was a doorway.

Vanessa Gillier
Dec 14, 20253 min read


A Foreigner in My Own Life
Recovery changes you—but no one talks about how strange it feels to meet yourself on the other side.

Vanessa Gillier
Dec 7, 20253 min read


The Gentle Art of Beginning Again
Starting anew not because you were broken, but because you are whole.

Vanessa Gillier
Nov 30, 20253 min read


You’re Not Broken Anymore - But You’re Not the Same Either
Recovery, whether from mental illness, addiction, trauma, grief, or burnout is rarely a reset button.

Vanessa Gillier
Nov 23, 20252 min read


This is Not a Breakthrough Post
I’m here. Not thriving. Not crashing. Just… living. Staying. Becoming.

Vanessa Gillier
Nov 9, 20254 min read


Suffering Isn’t a Requirement for Growth
You don’t have to drink the whole ocean to know that it’s salty.

Vanessa Gillier
Oct 19, 20253 min read


Shame
Shame doesn’t just weigh us down - it drives us to hide, to numb, and to believe we’re beyond help.

Vanessa Gillier
Oct 5, 20253 min read


She Knew: A Womans Intuition and the Cost of Not Listening
The ancestral instinct and strength of emotional intelligence.

Vanessa Gillier
Sep 28, 20254 min read


From Invincible to Invisible to Invaluable
You may have been broken, but you were never beyond repair.

Vanessa Gillier
Aug 24, 20254 min read


Betrayal: The Break That Never Goes Away
Things are never quite the same after betrayal.

Vanessa Gillier
Aug 17, 20255 min read


Frankenstein of my former selves
Every version of me, even the ones I'd rather forget, gave me something.

Vanessa Gillier
Jul 20, 20253 min read


Signs You're Healing
Even if you're still arguing with yourself in the shower.

Vanessa Gillier
Jul 6, 20253 min read


Why I Write What I Can’t Always Say
I may not have been able to say it then, so I'm saying it now.

Vanessa Gillier
Jun 29, 20252 min read


Same House, Different Stories
Understanding how you became who you are.

Vanessa Gillier
Jun 15, 20255 min read


Healing out loud
Because I nearly died in silence.

Vanessa Gillier
May 18, 20253 min read


Lifestyle and Habits
True healing isn’t just about stopping something harmful - it’s about starting something better.

Vanessa Gillier
May 4, 20255 min read


Social support
You are not alone on this journey.

Vanessa Gillier
Apr 27, 20253 min read


Spiritual connection
We are not alone in our fight.

Vanessa Gillier
Apr 20, 20253 min read


P.S. - post-sanctuary
How hitting rock bottom was the best thing that ever happened to me.

Vanessa Gillier
Apr 13, 20257 min read


A year ago today...
My transition from despair to hope.

Vanessa Gillier
Mar 16, 20255 min read
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