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Opposite Action - imagine the possibilities
When all else fails, do the opposite!

Jack Gailer
Jan 54 min read
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The Ripple Effect of Patience
"You will not be punished for your anger; you will be punished by your anger." – Buddha

Vanessa Gillier
Oct 27, 20242 min read
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Oklahoma
My mouth says, ‘I’m ok.’ My fingers text, ‘I’m fine.’ My heart says, ‘I’m broken.’

Vanessa Gillier
Aug 28, 20243 min read
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Trauma Responses – you never know what the past will bring
It isn’t about what’s wrong with you, it’s about what happened to you.

Vanessa Gillier
Aug 25, 20245 min read
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Maladaptation – good cope, bad cope
Life is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s what it is. The way we cope with it, is what makes the difference.

Vanessa Gillier
Aug 18, 20247 min read
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Doppelgänger
My palindrome life.

Vanessa Gillier
Aug 14, 20244 min read
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The Cobra Effect – when the solution is worse than the problem
Addiction and Mental Illness are two heads of the same snake.

Vanessa Gillier
Aug 4, 20244 min read
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Triggers – the spark before the flame
A trigger is the connection between the conscious mind and a buried painful memory.

Vanessa Gillier
Jul 28, 20246 min read
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Emotional Regulation – Self-care
Surf the waves, without drowning in the swell.

Vanessa Gillier
Jun 15, 20244 min read
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